Getting to know one another,
for the sake of Allah.
Meaningful, guided conversations for Muslims considering marriage. Open it on your phone or computer and start a session in under a minute.
Not swiping. Not chat. A structured exchange.
Taaruf isn't swiping or chat. It's a structured exchange, answered side by side, held by a guardian, opened with intention.
Start a session, invite a guardian.
Before you begin, a guardian you invite, yours or theirs, joins the session. They can see both answers in their browser while it's active. Every session opens with a short dua and intention.
Both answer. Then both reveal.
You both answer the same question privately. No one peeks. When you both lock in, your answers appear side by side, yours and theirs, at the same time.
Compare, and grade how you align.
Side by side, reflect on each answer and grade how closely you align, or mark it to discuss later. It all rolls up into a picture of where you two stand.
See where you align, and where to talk more.
When the session ends, you see a clear recap: alignment across deen, family, lifestyle, career, and communication. A clearer picture of where you stand, together.
Start a session.
Pick a question set, share the code with the person you're speaking to, and invite a mahram. It runs in the browser, nothing to install.
So many of us hit the same roadblock. You're just starting to get to know someone for marriage, the most important decision of your life, and you realise you don't actually know what to ask to be sure this is half your deen.
And even once you know what to ask, there is where. In a café? A living room with family listening? Over WhatsApp at midnight? You don't know where to even ask without overstepping a boundary.
So you start scraping together questions from Reddit threads, ChatGPT prompts, blog posts written for nobody in particular. None of it is tailored to Muslims. None of it asks the things that actually matter: the deen, the home, the way two lives fit together.
Taaruf was built to be the structured, Muslim-tailored conversation we wished we'd had: the right questions, in the right order, with a mahram in the room and intention at the door.